Setback with your life
Friday 11th August 2017
Have you had Setback with your life and ever wondered how to get your life back in direction after experiencing a period of chaos? Without a doubt, there are many of us who resort to dwelling on it instead of empowering ourselves to get up and get going again. Although it’s not very healthy, it’s so easy to feel sorry for yourself and not do anything about your circumstances, or to make things worse through self-destructive habits. The key to life, however, is like riding a bicycle and to stay balanced, you must keep going. I have been there and worn the t-shirt.
For example, if you feel your relationship has ended badly you might conclude that you’re not as striking or smart as you thought you were. Perhaps it might be that you don’t get the job or promotion you wanted then you might start to believe you’re not that intelligent after all. Your internal critical voice may start saying you’re just not good enough. Something that happened with me was major health issues going back to 2004 but hey its 2017 and I’m here still helping other people.
However, it’s so important to understand and believe that your worth is not determined by circumstance; it is constant, and cannot be shaken or changed by life’s setback. If you have difficulty in believing this, it can be helpful to simple state it as an affirmation and say it several times a day. You must accept what has happened that’s how you learn important lessons without your confidence taking a huge hit
There is no one who is immune to facing any setbacks in your life. If you have one, identify the problem and search for a solution. By doing this you can start the process of transformation, for it is on the other side of the setback that you realize you’re not going to be the same person you were before. You’re going to be wiser, stronger, and better for it.
Acknowledge that through the tough times, the miracles of transformation happen, and we can flourish on the other side.